Having been a little girl whose daddy didn’t want her, it’s been interesting trying to raise my two girls who have a daddy that loves them to bits. Every little girl is different, I’m not a princess kinda girl although I like to dress up from time to time. Before my first little one I did not want the “pink”. None of it, and yet I have two girls that seriously loves pink and purple and my life began filling up with girly things. But she wears boots and a twirly dress, she hangs upside down on the jungle gym and my littly is loving hearts and stars. If they have the freedom to be who they want to be, it doesn’t matter whether they are dressing up in dresses and high heels or gumboots and overalls, they will be strong confident women and their daddy cannot play with them as much as he would like but they “cook” with him, and he plays trains with them and he helps to feed the dolls. He is there for them as much as I am and my girls will choose their own path. Feminisation cannot happen unless the man choose it and then power to him. A daddy dressing up with his daughter is not telling her that he needs to be a princess, but rather that he can use his imagination and play with her. She will love him more for that.

Thanks! I know I have learned even more over the last year from her. Its amazing how different each child is, but in the best ways possible.